Seven sensitive subjects
| Subject | Why it is sensitive | What to do |
|---|---|---|
| Politics and war | war and politics are delicate subjects according to several guides | let the other person start the conversation, listen, do not judge |
| Ho Chi Minh and the flag | described as sacred symbols | no jokes, do not step on a flag or an image |
| Mausoleum | discretion is requested and sometimes enforced by staff according to Frommer's | silence, proper dress, follow instructions; see the Ho Chi Minh Mausoleum |
| War memorials | places of mourning | no jokes or disrespectful photos |
| Head | the most respected part of the body in Buddhist culture | do not touch an adult's or a child's head |
| Feet | pointing or gesturing with the foot is considered rude | use your hands, keep feet away from altars |
| Public gestures | displays of affection are frowned on | stay low-key |
At the temple and at the table
- Shoulders and knees covered in pagodas and temples: the detail is in dress in Hanoi's temples.
- Give and receive with both hands, a gesture of respect named by one guide, especially with elders.
- To say a few kind words, see useful phrases in Hanoi.
What is a matter of law
Military photos, drones, e-cigarettes and drugs are matters of law: see laws, fines and prison in Hanoi for what is written. The taboos above are customs, but when in doubt, caution avoids trouble.
Putting your questions to a guide
A local guide explains better what is done. One GetYourGuide offer covers a walking tour of Hanoi's landmarks and history. For tourist traps, see scams and safety in Hanoi.
FAQ
Can you talk about the Vietnam War in Hanoi?
Guides advise not to raise it yourself. If the other person brings it up, listen respectfully.
Can you photograph a statue or portrait of Ho Chi Minh?
Only one guide advises against photographing his representations. At the mausoleum, follow staff instructions.
Can couples hold hands?
Yes, discreet gestures pass; avoid strong displays of affection, according to the guides read.
Further reading
See also Hanoi solo for women.
The Hanoi Authority editorial team, 30/10/2026.
